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Hi Conflict Blueprint

Handle the ex without losing your mind

For stepmums (and stepmoms) who are DONE being dragged into the drama and chaos of their partner's high conflict co-parent.

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Being a stepmum is hard enough… but this?

You knew it wouldn’t be easy, but nothing prepared you for the drama and constant power struggles. It’s exhausting.

All you want is to focus on your relationship and your family.

 

Instead, you’re walking on eggshells, bracing for the next explosion.

It's time to take your life back.

My No BS approach

Don’t stay stuck in the chaos. Here’s your step-by-step process to break free.

Stage 1

SPOT THE PATTERNS

This free quiz will help you identify if she's truly high conflict or just difficult, so you know what you're dealing with.

Stage 3

CONFLICT MASTERY

The strategies you need to handle the drama and stay in control—no matter what she throws at you.

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Stage 2

BREAK THE CYCLE

Key steps to stop the drama cycle and protect your peace.

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Stage 4

RECLAIM YOUR LIFE

A calmer home, a stronger family, and the space and confidence to fully enjoy your life.

Here's how I can help

My approach gives you no-BS strategies that actually work—so you can focus on your life, not her chaos.

Feeling Stuck? Start Here

Practical strategies you can start using today to get your life back.

Is the Ex High Conflict or Just Difficult? How to Tell

She's nice one day, toxic the next. So is the ex high conflict or just difficult? Learn how to uncover the truth – and how this changes everything.

Stop Living in Fear – Setting Boundaries When You're Terrified of What She'll Do Next

Stop living in fear of her threats. Learn how to set boundaries with a high conflict ex when you're terrified of escalation.

She’s Poisoning Their Minds: What to Do When the Kids Believe Her Lies

When the high conflict ex twists the truth to turn your stepkids against you – without throwing the kids in the middle or fuelling more conflict.

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You can handle this. I’ll show you how

I'm Kellie

I'm a certified coach and stepmother of two.

I know how it feels to have someone trying to control everything when all you want is to enjoy your life with your family. 

I kept hoping things would improve. But high conflict situations don’t work like that. 

So I truly get it. I also know it doesn’t have to be this way.

Now, I help stepmums (and stepmoms)  like you do the same, with clear, no-BS strategies that actually work.

Feeling Stuck? Start Here

Practical strategies to get your life back.

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How to set boundaries with a toxic ex that truly work. Draw the line and hold firm, even when she pushes back.

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One toxic message from your partner’s ex can ruin your day. Learn how stop reacting and communicate without drama.

What Type of High-Conflict BM Are You Dealing With?

If you're struggling to make sense of the chaos, take this free quiz to uncover her patterns—so you know exactly how to handle it.

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WORKSHOP

How to Set Boundaries with a High-Conflict Ex

Struggling to enforce boundaries? Learn the phrases, mindset shifts, and strategies you need to set and hold boundaries. Without the guilt, stress, or backlash.”

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COURSE

The High-Conflict
Blueprint

A step-by-step framework for handling a high-conflict ex with confidence—so you can stop feeling powerless and start living on your terms

Coming soon!

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